Recipe: Green Applesauce

My sweet R has a problem that I WISH I had....she LOVES crunchy green (or any color really) veggies even more than she loves sweet treats. Who is this child and where did she come from? Clearly that gene was not an inherited one....

I have always taken for granted how easy it is to get her to eat her veggies. I never really understood the big fuss behind hiding veggies in other foods. That is, until my B bug decided that things with stems (or that had a stem at any point) are not his cup of tea. Now I join the real world and find myself stressing over whether or not he is getting the essential nutrients that he needs to keep that toddler body going, and going, and going....

So, we get creative these days and I wanted to share with you all a recipe that we found and has quickly become a favorite of the 18 month old that is RUNNING around our house these days.

Green Applesauce

 

Mama Chef Extraordinaire: Shannon at Squooshi (www.squooshi.com)

When to Introduce: Because this recipe uses RAW spinach, you will want to consult with your pediatrician before serving. Generally after 12 months, raw veggies are a "go", but check to be sure. Alternatively, you can steam the greens and then blend with applesauce as well.

Why We Love It: What is not to love?? Yummy applesauce is a sweet treat that is most often a crowd pleaser with kiddos from 6 month to 90 years old! When we add in the greens, we add in a significant dose of essential nutrients such as Vitamin A, Vitamin C, Iron, Fiber, and even Calcium.

Ingredients

1/2 C organic applesauce  (homemade or store-bought)
1 handful of organic raw spinach leaves.

Directions:

 This one is tough.....are you ready for it? You might want to take some notes.... 

 

1. Blend until smooth.

 

2. Enjoy!

  Servings:
This fills either one large or two small refillable food pouches.(Approx 6-8 ounces)

Good job mama! You can rest easily knowing you snuck that one right past your little love! And they LOVED it! :)

Sinfully Sweet Motherhood

Why is it that when we send our little ones to "time out" it is considered a punishment, but for so many mamas (this one included), a "time out" seems a delicious little opportunity? A time to step away from the all-consuming job of motherhood even if just for a few minutes, to reconnect with  other women, our passions, and most importantly, ourselves. Today's Working Girl, has built a business around just that, helping mamas take a well-deserved "time-out."

In 2011, Diana Brandt became a mama and her world was forever changed. She was in love with her new role, but it wasn't long before she realized that being a mama is tough work. And it is even tougher when you don't have a strong network of other women who have "been there" to help you through the tough spots. In fact, for six months, Diana struggled with feeling along. So, she stepped up and created Sinfully Sweet Motherhood, a place where women can connect with other mamas and mamas-to-be, build lasting friendships, and most importantly, never feel alone.

It is my pleasure to introduce you all to Diana....

Tell us about your business...

"Sinfully Sweet Motherhood is working hard to connect moms and moms to be to each other and to some of the best resources out there. I wanted to create a place where we could all get together with our kids and without and have some fun, relax, laugh and learn. The events (most are free) I put on are all relevant to mamas whether it's a mom's night out, a workshop by a sleep coach or nutritionist or simply a fun bash for the kids. If you're a mom or are planning to be a mom, you should check this group out!"

  

What did you do in your past life...before you launched your business?

"Everything and anything. I was searching for the right thing, the best thing, my path. I once started a baking company called Sinful Sweets (I still get asked to bake for events), does the name sound familiar. I love to be creative and I'm always seeking a challenge."

 

 What made you decide to take the leap into being a business owner?

"I can't stand being stagnant in a position and I always wanted more out of what I was doing. It was time to break off and go where there was no ceiling."

 

 What has been your greatest professional success to date?

"Each time I finish an event and I can shake off all that fear and anxiety and tell myself how silly it was to worry. That is where my success is right now because it reminds me to just keep moving forward and stop doubting myself."

 

 How about the biggest "lesson learned"?

"I am constantly learning with this job because I had only done food events and certain aspects, not every aspect. Each event is a learning experience and I'm becoming more confident with each one."

 

 What is next on the horizon for your business?

"We have some fun events coming up, a mommy mixer at Whole Foods, some free yoga classes with Blissful Yoga and an informational event on getting your kids to eat healthy and be happy. We are also working on an event in March with a sleep coach because everyone could use more info on helping your kids sleep better. I know I could!"

 

 Where can we find you when you are not being Super Business Owner Woman??

"At home, park, mall, play date with child. If I'm without child you can find me kickboxing, drinking coffee with a friend or laid out on the couch watching Scandal, Fringe, New Girl...etc."

 

If we were to run into you at a cocktail party, what would be your "party trick"?

"Um, I could play a mean game of air hockey, wait that probably wouldn't be at a cocktail party. I can shake my eyeballs...creepy :)"

 

 When someone asks you to tell a joke, what is your "go-to" one-liner?

"Two peanuts walk into a bar. One was a salted."

 

If you could go back in time, what would you tell your 18 year-old self?

"I was having too much fun to listen to anything!!"

Inspired? Want to learn more about Sinfully Sweet Motherhood? 
Check out their website at www.sinfullysweetmotherhood.com

In the "mommy wars", can I be Switzerland?

I tell ya, we women are tough to please...and if I may go so far, I will say that the majority of us are some judgemental "you-know-whats" when it comes to how we view other women. Oh come on, you know it's true....from those awkward tween years, to the spiteful full-blown-teen ones to the grand-daddy of judgmental times....Parenthood.

As much as I like to say that I am a VERY tolerant and accepting person who tries to see the good in everyone, there are moments when I admit it....I think I am doing something better than someone else...or everyone else.  We all do it...come on....admit it. I know, it makes me feel dirty too...but its the truth. It is something that is just embedded in us. Whether it is discipline styles, medical care choices, or extracurricular activities, our choices as parents are unending and 110% personal. And often, we don't agree with the choices our best friends, sisters, or the random other mom at the grocery store, make. And while most of us will never say boo about it or make these thoughts known, our minds are often swirling with them. And so, we stew about it...I stew quite well.

One of the most highly inflammatory debates among parents is: Should both parents work? Or is it best for one to be home with the kiddos? (I can hear the blood boiling across the screen already) Also known as...."The Mommy Wars"

Let me begin by saying that I have been on BOTH sides of this argument and truthfully, it is an argument that I continue to fight with myself and drive my husband crazy with on a DAILY basis (OK, maybe I try to contain the husband part to once a week or so....). I have worked crazy corporate hours and come home to spend a whole 20 minutes with my kids before they go to bed. And I have spent long days at home with an infant and a toddler,  pulling my hair out and longing for interaction with adults that doesn't involve conversation about milestones, sleeping patterns, or diaper contents. Both have moments that suck. And both have moments of sheer perfection.

I have had the joy that comes along with walking in the door after a long day at the office and having my toddler wrap herself around my legs and excitedly tell me all about her day and how much she loves me. I have had feeling of pride that comes of taking my little girl into my office and showing her what I do all day and seeing her eyes light up with the possibilities that come along with what we may consider mundane office tasks. I can see her dreaming of her future and all the possibilities that it holds. I have had the satisfaction of contributing financially to their future. And I have learned to appreciate each and every minute that I have with my kiddos because when you only have about 20 of them after work, you learn to make the most of each tick of the clock.

On the other hand, being home with my kiddos, I have had the satisfaction of being the hero to kiss the boo-boos that come with toddler life (it's rough you know...) and make it "all better". I am the one that gets to answer the ongoing lists of questions that they ask....and make sure that I am continuing to challenge them to ask even more.  I have had the chance to show my kids that you can turn something that you are passionate about into a business venture. And I have had the chance to slow down time just a little bit....because let's face it, days can be long at home...but we all know that they are only little for a very short time.

Argh....just writing this has induced anxiety for me once again. Which choice is the "right" one? Which one ensures that I am doing the most good for my family? What is right "right now" may not be what is right for our family in 5 years. Not to mention the fact that what is best for ME right now may not be what is best for ME down the road...can't forget to take care of mama (or papa).

What makes a parent a "good parent" is the love that they share with their kiddos....not the number of minutes they see them each day, but what they DO with the moments they have. A good parent loves, shapes, and guides their children in a way that ensures they turn out to be the best possible version of themselves that they can be.  A good parent DOESN'T belittle others in front of their children or openly judge other parents for the choices they make. A good parent not only teaches, but listens. Last time I checked, a parent could do any and all of these things regardless of employment status.

The bottom line, in the Mommy Wars, I choose to be Switzerland. I choose no side...because quite frankly, I could go either way. Call me a coward, call me a weeble wobbler, but I fully straddle the imaginary line that exists between working parents and SAHM/Ds and depending on the day (or the hour) I can tip one way or the other. Maybe it just depends which hip I am holding the heavier kiddo on....

Lil' Helper GIVEAWAY!!!

Last week, we featured Lil' Helper baby bottle holder on The Stuff We Love Tuesday! It is such a great concept for the busy mamas and papas of today and we are so happy that Lil' Helper very generously sent us one to give away to our fans....that's YOU! So, go ahead and enter....then show off your new baby swag to all your friends! Nothing more fun than new baby swag right? Unless of course, it is FREE baby swag!!

Here it is:

Wanna get in on the giveaway?? It's simple and you can earn up to 5 entries with the simple steps below! Contests runs until midnight 2/1/13 and winner will be selected at random and announced on our Facebook page!!!

Here is how you can earn your 5 entries:

1. "Like" our Facebook page and leave a comment below letting us know! If you already "like" us, Thank You, please leave a comment below letting us know that and you can have an entry too!
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4. Follow us on Pinterest! We are always posting great recipes and fun kiddo stuff that we adore! You can follow us from the "Pinterest" tab at the top of our FB page, or you  can look us up by our username "atfirstbite". Then, you guessed it, leave a comment here letting us know!
5. Visit the Lil' Helper Facebook page and give them a "Like" as well! Gotta show some love to the people making this all possible! And of course...leave a comment here letting us know you did!

OK, that's that! Get your giveaway on friends!!! Happy Friday!!!

Recipe: Lentil Soup (for the WHOLE family!)

Ahhh, it's winter here in Arizona and that means it is less than 80 degrees out (although darn close to it) and there area few clouds in the sky and this strange wet stuff coming out of them every now and then. My days in Portland taught me that "stuff" might be called rain. In fact, Sweet R (who spent the first 2.5 years of her life in Portland) asked me this morning if "the sun was still eating breakfast and not ready to work yet...." on her way to preschool. Clearly, she has blocked all memories of her days in the beautiful PNW...

Well, this "blustery" weather has me thinking about soup. Yumm...I love soup. And so do both of my kiddos. The "Mr" is a little harder to convince... Well, this one shows promise and I think even he may just consider this one a full meal. The best part, it can totally be made into any consistency that the tiny tummies in your house can get behind!

Lentil Soup

 

Mama Chef Extraordinaire: Shannon from Squooshi (www.squooshi.com)

When to Introduce: The ingredients in this dish are really safe for any age (over 6 months)- nothing that is highly allergenic. Flavors are mild, but a great use of spices makes this a super dish to broaden your little one's culinary pallet (be sure to ask a pediatrician if you have any questions)

Why We Love It: This dish is truly a comfort food that the whole family can enjoy together. A healthy blend of veggies and lentils packs a nutritional punch while also providing a hearty meal. And, you can easily make this dish into any consistency that your family enjoys...puree a little longer for new eaters and enjoy as soup for the big kiddos and adults!

Ingredients

1/2 medium onion, chopped (about 1 cup)
1 tablespoon olive oil
1 medium red or white potato, peeled and cubed
1/2 cup red lentils
2 1/2 cups water
2 carrots, sliced
1/2 cup fresh spinach or kale
1 garlic clove, minced
1 teaspoon ground cumin
salt and pepper to taste

Directions: 

1. In a medium-size pot, saute onion in olive oil until soft, about 5 minutes.
 

2. Add all the other ingredients.
 

3. Cover and simmer for approx. 30 minutes.
 

4. Serve as soup for the "big kids" and use your blender or other food-processing device to puree to desired consistency for the wee ones!
   

Servings: Depends on the size of the appetites in your house, but will make 2 large bowls for the "big kids" and 1-2 medium sized servings for the littles!

Mmmmm.....soup!

Stones of Healing

There are some people in the world through whom creativity and artistic ability flow in abundance. They are able to capture the essence of a moment in a word, a photo, a painting, a piece of jewelry. They have the innate ability to make the intangible, tangible, and they allow us to touch and feel pure beauty in its rawest form. Without question, this ability is a true gift and not possessed by all.

Here is where I introduce you to Cara Laird. A native Tucsonan, a mama to two sweet little boys, and a true artist. Cara's passion for life had lead her to her current endeavor, Stones of Healing, a company which specializes in nursing necklaces and other wellness jewelry. Like so many of us aspire to do, Cara has found a way to live her life's passion through her work. She combines the elements of art, healing, and parenthood in her beautiful jewelry and is sharing them with the world.

It is my pleasure to introduce you all to Cara....

 Tell us about your business...

"I make baby-friendly jewelry for parents, i.e. mommy necklaces or nursing necklaces. I use natural gemstones and raw organic wood for most of my designs, and everything is made in my home in my spare time while I stay at home with my two little boys, ages 1 and 3 years."

 

What did you do in your past life...before you launched your business?

"I was a social worker. I worked in the mental health industry with high needs children, mostly in the foster care system. It was a rewarding but soul wrenching job."

 

 What made you decide to take the leap into being a business owner?

"I went back to work part time after my first son was born, but found the transition difficult and hated leaving him, pumping, and just all of it! I needed something I could do at home with him, and making jewelry was a long time hobby of mine. I also realized most of my usual jewelry could not stand up to being worn with a baby in tow, hence the baby/mommy friendly aspect of my designs."

 

What has been your greatest professional success to date?

"I did not invent the concept of the mommy or nursing necklace, but I have created some my own totally unique designs that have become extremely popular! Although other shops have copied some of my designs, such as the Stone in Wood nursing necklace, I am proud to be the original designer of such unique and popular concepts. (Imitation = flattery, right? ;))"

 

How about the biggest "lesson learned"?

"I am still learning the lesson of balance, between my home life and family and my business. Working at home can be challenging in that it is ALWAYS there with you, so it is difficult to separate the responsibilities at times."

 

 What is next on the horizon for your business?

"I am always looking for new inspiration. My husband and I are considering several concepts right now to either expand the current business, or to open a totally separate online shop. We enjoy creating and look forward to actualizing some of our newest ideas!"

 

 Where can we find you when you are not being Super Business Owner Woman??

"At library story time, the grocery store, the kid's gym, or just hanging at home with the kiddos, baking something or doing arts and crafts."

 

If we were to run into you at a cocktail party, what would be your "party trick"?

"I am "double" jointed and can bend my fingers backward to touch my arm!"

 

 When someone asks you to tell a joke, what is your "go-to" one-liner?

"I am horrible at jokes, my delivery is BAD! I don't even try anymore. :P"

 

 If you could go back in time, what would you tell your 18 year-old self?

"Being ambitious and hard working is great, but don't get too attached to your Plan - life has other ideas at every turn! Go with the flow and know you'll end up in the best place you can be, even if it's nowhere near where you imagined."

 

Inspired? Want to learn more about Stones of Healing? Check out their website at www.stonesofhealing.com

Squooshi Refillable Food Pouch

So it is no secret that we hear at At First Bite are BIG fans of the refillable food pouches. We love to put all sorts of Yumminess into our food processor, blend it up, and serve it up to our families. And 99.9% of the time, my own littles ADORE whatever goes into their daily "smoothie." And me, I am one happy mama when I can rest assured that the best nutrients on earth are in those tiny tummies helping to grow big and strong, fight off these nasty winter illness months, and of course, making them smile.

So, you can imagine how excited I was when Squooshi sent us a few of their products to try our and share with you all, our loyal fans! Super Mama Shannon and her Super Son Reid, are the genius minds at work behind these ADORABLE pouches. Like so many of us, Shannon and her son LOVED those single use squeeze pouches, but struggled with the idea of the environmental impact of such products as well as the associated costs incurred as a consumer of them. Having a lifelong commitment to healthy living, Shannon was affectionately dubbed "The Puree Queen" when her son was born as she set out to feed him the best stuff on earth.  Somewhere between her commitment to healthy food for her son and her passion for environmental sustainability, Squooshi was born....and we are so glad it was!

Did you know that most pre-packaged foods travel over 1200 miles before they reach your table? Crazy right? So not only can you fill these pouches with yummy purees and other flexible nutrition options that PROVIDE ENERGY and fuel your little loves and their daily adventures, but you SAVE ENERGY by cutting out that long trek from farm to factory to retailer to table. Better for you and your family, and better for the environment! Can't get much better than that!

These pouches just make life easy....they are easy to clean, easy to travel with, easy to fill, and easy to love! And did we mention, they are SUPER cute?? Because they are... I mean, I am an adult and I want to name each one of these adorable animals and call them my own! With a sturdy zip-lock style seal and a choke-proof cap, Squooshi reusable food pouches can be filled with whatever squishy wholesome goodness you and your little ones desire for a healthy, on-the go snack or meal. Fill. Eat. Wash. Repeat. It's that easy....really, I promise!

And of course, Squooshi Refillable Food Pouches are BPA-free, Phthalate-free, PVC-free, and Lead-free. 100%, without a doubt, healthy.




Wanna give Squooshi Refillable Food Pouches a try??

Visit their website at www.squooshi.com to learn more and even place an order!

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A Side of History with Those Eggs?

It is days like today that I am reminded of how important it is to be your child's first teacher...

Not only was today a day on which we celebrate the life of civil rights leader Martin Luther King, Jr, a day worthy of tremendous celebration and teachable lessons in and of itself. But is was also historically significant in that it was the day that we saw the swearing in of this nation's first African American President for his second term in office. As millions converged upon this nation's capitol to celebrate this momentous event, my family and I were going about our morning, happy to have T (aka Daddy) home for the holiday.

As we were munching our turkey bacon and scrambled eggs, I turned on the TV to try and catch a few moments of the ceremonies. With a 3 year old and an 18 month old, I fully expected that I would be able to catch a word here and there and maybe, just maybe, capture their attention long enough to hear a "...So help me God." I was wrong.

While baby B was pretty much enthralled with his eggs, my daughter was glued to the TV. Maybe it has a little something to do with the fact that we usually have a strict no-TV during mealtime policy in our house, maybe it had something to do with the thousands upon thousands of people that were crowding that mall in DC. Whatever it was, my 3 year old was interested....and this was a lesson that I didn't want her to miss out on. This was indeed, a very teachable moment.

So we grabbed our turkey bacon and juice and moved into the living room to watch the proceedings.

I am quite proud of the fact that she knows the president by face...."Mama, its The Obama!" is what she says whenever she sees our Commander in Chief on TV. And she knows that his wife's name is Michelle. But I do think this was the first time that she has seen the First Daughters and she was obsessed. From their colorful coats to the dance they both shared with Michelle when she came out to greet the crowds.....she was all over it! She wanted to know where they lived, where they went to school, whether or not they played soccer or did ballet. I answered what I could and maybe made up a little of what I didn't know....no harm in that right?

My point is, while she may not be concerned with the attack on Benghazi or what the latest gun control legislation will be (nor should these be things her innocent little mind should be consumed with), she was taking an active interest in the American political process. She was witnessing history through the eyes of a 3 year old and she was fascinated. Maybe, just maybe, when she cracks a history book sometime down the road in her education, she will remember sitting in my lap and watching history be made.

Days like today, restore a small sliver of faith in our American political process, and give me hope for the future that we will be handing to our children and grandchildren. For although the days are many that the system seems quite broken, today, the world looked in on us and saw a peaceful celebration of the democratic process. A day fitting of celebration indeed. Just ask my sweet R....

Another day, another word...no biggie.

For anyone who has made it to the celebratory one-year mark in parenting, you know that the anticipation of what baby's newest word will be, is a fun game. Of course, mom and dad can "understand" about 10 times as many "words" (please note liberal use of sarcastic quotation marks) as any random Joe who may have the fortune of having a "conversation" (OK, I will settle down with the excessive punctuation marks....) with your little love. And of course, the pediatrician will smile and nod obligingly when you tell him/her that your little one exceeds vocabulary expectations as laid out by the experts who live in the world of Dr. Google. Of course they do....they are a child prodigy.

But when it comes down to it, having a conversation with a toddler, can be painful. Kind of like trying to have a discussion in a bar when you are standing right next to the speakers blaring out the latest song by an artist that you embarrassingly have never heard of because you are so out of the loop....not that I would know what that feels like. I am just guessing that there would be lots of smiling and nodding, lots of saying "yes" when the other person asks you "where did you go to school", and lots of trying to look like you know what you are doing...when you have no idea. Yeah...kinda like that....

But every once in a while, a word comes out of that beautiful babe's mouth (the toddler...not the person at the bar) that is clear as a bell. And inevitably, you give such high accolades for this achievement that the tiny human then goes on to repeat that word over...and over....and over....and over again.

That is the case in our house right now and I swear that I am living a scene straight out of "Finding Nemo".....

Now, not only is "mine" the word of choice just like our avian friends in Nemo...but I swear to you, Little Man B could be a voice double for these feathered fellows. He sounds JUST LIKE THEM. His voice kinda cracks (still too early for that right? I know kids are developing earlier these days....) he cocks his head a little and repeats it over and over again. I kid you not. YouTube it friends....the movie, not my little man.

The cherry on top, he punctuates every lengthy bout of "mine"-gitis with a full declarative statement...."I want it".  What, where did that come from?  That is a full 3 syllables strung together....go ahead, clap it out. Of course to the common outsider, it probably sounds more like "Schmerble merfle do" (which is WAY more than 3 syllables) but to this mama of a future Mensa member, it is most definitely "I want it" and I couldn't be more proud of my very entitled little man....hmmm....we may a bigger problem here. Ah, parenthood....

Recipe: Sesame Green Bean Salad

With a 3 1/2 year old and an almost 18 month old at home, I am always on the lookout for mealtime options that are not only healthy, but fun and appealing to the whole crowd. Good news is my partner-in-crime of a husband isn't real picky, so there is one table-mate I don't have to work too hard to please! The miniature ones however, can sometimes be a different story....depending on the day....or the hour.

When I saw this recipe today, I got all excited because I know for sure that it would be a winner at our dinner table. Heck, maybe even breakfast if it is a "choosy" day for the littles. And, I even learned a new trick (stop with the "old dog" image in your head already...). Did you know that if you soak green beans in ice water after steaming them, they return to their beautiful vibrant green selves again? Who knew? Not me!

In the spirit of broadening the family palette, let's put a little Asian spin on green bean salad with this one that is sure to be a table pleaser!

Sesame Green Bean Salad

 

Mama Chef Extraordinaire: Jennifer Tyler Lee (www.crunchacolor.com)

When to Introduce: In its natural state, this is a perfect finger food for those new self-feeders - you know your child and their eating abilities best. Additionally, this can be pureed into flavorful puree for those new eaters in your house as early as 9 months (be sure to ask a pediatrician if you have any questions)

Why We Love It: A super simple dish that puts a new spin on a classic side dish. Also, a great opportunity to get your little ones involved in the kitchen! Let them be in charge of sprinkling the sesame seeds onto the green beans before serving....ever met a preschooler who doesn't like to sprinkle? Me either....

Ingredients

1 pound green beans, trimmed and washed
2 tsp rice vinegar
½ tsp sesame seed oil
1 tsp sesame seeds

Directions:
1. Steam the green beans in a basket over boiling water for about 10 minutes, until crisp-tender. Steam a little less if you prefer your green beans on the crunchy side. Steaming your vegetables is one of the best ways to help retain their nutrients.

2. Give the beans a bath in ice water, to bring back their color.

3. Toss gently with the rice vinegar, sesame oil and sesame seeds.

 Servings: Makes about 4 average size portions...more for younger kiddos!

I think I am making this one tonight for sure! I need a crowd pleaser!

Li'l Helper Baby Bottle Holder

As a "veteran" mama (I have a whopping 3 years and 7 months under my belt) there are very few baby products on the market that I have not seen at least 3 different iterations of at various baby showers, play groups, or mama meetings. But every once in a while, a product comes across my radar that makes me stop and think..."Well now, isn't that cool?"

One product that made me do just that, is a little something called the Li'l Helper Baby Bottle Holder. When I saw this product for the first time, I immediately thought of the day my brother-in-law came into our living room with his first born in her carrier. She was about 6 months old and, like a rookie parent,  he had driven her cross town to our home during mealtime. Classic lesson to be learned there...

Rather than have her cry mercilessly in the back seat while he drove, he had managed to prop her bottle on a blanket in a way that she could easily sip from it as she wished....unless he hit a bump...or turned a corner too quickly.....or tapped the brakes. Then, all bets were off and he would once again have a hungry, cranky, baby on his hands. I will admit, it made me giggle....especially since I myself had a 9 month old at the time. If only he had had a Li'l Helper.

This super handy contraption allows even the busiest of parents to multitask while still providing the best of care to their little love. For parents of multiples or those with multiple kiddos close in age, it takes the frenzy out of feeding time allowing you to tend to two (or more) children at the same time....kinda like an extra hand.....how many times have I asked Santa for one of those in recent years?

Besides the convenience factor, this gadget is just cute! It's chic design is eye catching and is also quite ergonomic. It matches closely the natural nursing posture of your little one and encourages development of key muscle groups and motor skills. Baby will love you even more than they already do (if that is even possible) when they discover the super fun rattle that is built right into the handle on the Li'l Helper.  Pleasure and function in one place....who doesn't love that?!?!

And as for staying power, I predict this one will be a diaper bag must-have for a long time to come! It feels durable and sturdy and is of course, BPA-free. And the cherry on top....it is super easy to clean and dishwasher safe! Ummm.... I love it even more!

Now, where is my time travel machine?? If I ever find it, I am taking myself right back to that day in our living room with my tired, worn-out looking, new father, of a brother-in-law, and I will proudly bestow upon him a Li'l Helper. Something tells me this will be one of those products that I turn to my own children as they are holding my grand kids and say "Now, where was that when you kids were little?"

Wanna give Lil'l Helper Baby Bottle Holder a try??

Visit their website at www.lil-helper.com to learn more and even place an order!

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Mama Guilt is a Wicked Thing....

I have written several times (both here and on other blogs) about my transition from being a corporate ladder climber to being a SAHM (and don't forget small business owner). As I have said, I struggle with an on-going identity crisis much of the time. Regardless of how I am feeling about my life's work on any given day, I always, always, always am conscious of how my children perceive me. Little Man B is still too little to think of mama as anything other than his caretaker....thank goodness....

Miss R, on the other hand, is perceptive beyond her years and I often find myself answering questions I thought I had a good 5-10 years to conjure up some clever answers to. As it turns out, no such luck.

My little girl goes to pre-school 2 days per week for 6 hours each day. She is a terribly social creature, so the social stimulation is critical for her and it turns out she has learned a thing to two in class also. She loves it....almost as much as I love a little break from 2 toddlers a few times a week....Hey, I am nothing if not honest right?

As far as she knows, all the other kiddos in school have mamas or papas at home too. She doesn't realize that many of her classmates have two hard working parents that drop their children off at school and then go on to work a full day at a "real" job. This thought came cross her mind one day on the way home from school when she was telling me in her matter-of-fact way, that there are some kids at her school that get to do EVERY art project at school...even the ones on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays. This thought upset her....she was totally jealous of them.

I tried to delicately explain to her that many of her classmates go "school" every day because there is not a parent that is at home to care for them during the day....and that this was OK. In fact, this is how it was the first 2 years of her life too. She mulled this over, and then said something that made my stomach drop.

"But mama, Mommies are not supposed to go to work....only Daddies."

Gulp, ugh, boo hiss.

Not the idea that I want my three year old daughter to have in her mind. I want her to know that she has the world at her fingertips. Not only can she be a mama some day, but she can be a scientist, a marketing guru, an accountant, a teacher, an astronaut....or ANYTHING she can dream up in her beautiful mind. The LAST think I want her to think is that "mommies are not supposed to go to work."

This killed me and I tried to explain my personal decision as best I could...tough to do with a 3 year old....with her 17 month old brother babbling incessantly next to her. I also made a mental note, to talk about this with her often as she grows.

Mama guilt is a wicked thing....for the first 2 years of her life, I felt terribly guilty for going to work every day and missing out on so many of the little things that make mamahood so rewarding.

Now, I have a new layer of guilt hanging over my head...Will my life decision to be home with my kiddos shape the way my daughter (and possibly my son) views her gender role? Will she grow up thinking that that is the way "it is supposed to be"?

I can only promise her, and myself, that I will show her the value and uniqueness in every life decision. There is no one way that is right....only the way that is right for you. And baby girl, I promise to help you explore every horizon (as much as I can anyway....) until you find that path that calls to your soul...no matter what path that may be.

ReUsies 2-Pack GIVEAWAY!!!

A few weeks back, we featured ReUsies reusable snack and sandwich bags on The Stuff We Love Tuesday! We gave some away free to clients with purchases from At First Bite and the reviews have been awesome! Well, LUCKY YOU, because we have one last set in our stash and we are giving them away right here on the blog!

Here they are:

Wanna get in on the giveaway?? It's simple and you can earn up to 4 entries with the simple steps below! Contests runs until midnight 1/18/13 and winner will be selected at random and announced on our Facebook page!!!

Here is how you can earn your 4 entries:

1. "Like" our Facebook page and leave a comment below letting us know! If you already "like" us, Thank You, please leave a comment below letting us know that and you can have an entry too!
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OK, that's that! Get your giveaway on friends!!! Happy Friday!!!

Recipe: Roasted Edamame with Parmesan Cheese

One of the most common questions I get from clients and parent in general is: "How the heck to I get my little one to eat more protein?" Please know that if you little one constantly spits out chicken, turkey, beef....you are not alone! It is far more common that you think. And, while many of these kiddos will eat yogurt, cheese, and peanut butter (all great alternative sources of protein), there are only so many ways to serve those items. So, we are forced to get a little creative!

One of my missions at At First Bite is to get parents thinking "outside the box" when it comes to feeding your littles. Yes, the perennial favorites are great...bananas, sweet potatoes, apples, etc, but just like us adults, tiny palates are also looking to be sparked by new and exciting flavors. Those little taste buds deserve to be tickled too right?

So, today's recipe is one that will not only please the whole family (I mean, I am pretty sure I could make myself a complete meal out of this one), but will also pack in a healthy dose of protein sure to put mama's mind at ease a bit. And, for those self-feeders, it is sure to be a hit!!

Roasted Edamame with Parmesan Cheese

Mama Chef Extraordinaire: Laura at www.foodsnobstl.com

When to Introduce: As early as 9 months (can be pureed for those who are not quite self-feeding yet) - Please note: Edamame are young SOY BEANS, so be sure to consult a pediatrician if soy allergy is a concern!

Why We Love It: This is a dish the whole family can be on board with! And, it serves as a fun and creative way to get some extra protein into the diets of even the most finicky of diners!

Ingredients:

1 12oz. package of frozen, shelled edamame

Olive oil (approximately 2 tablespoon

Salt and fresh cracked pepper

1/4 cup freshly grated Parmesan cheese

Directions:

1. Preheat oven to 375 degrees.

2. Line a rimmed baking sheet with parchment paper.  Place the edamame on the parchment paper, drizzle with olive oil and sprinkle with salt and fresh cracked pepper.  Toss to evenly coat the edamame.

3. Place sheet in oven and bake for 15-20 minutes (stir about 1/2 through) or until cooked through (they will have a slightly wrinkled look to them).

4. Remove from oven, toss in a bowl with Parmesan cheese.

Servings: As a side dish, this recipe will serve a family of 4 easy peasy!

Pure and Simple Yumminess my friends! With an international flair too! 

 

 

Bean and Sprout Photography Studios

Since becoming a mother 3 1/2 years ago, there are certain things that I have come to define as priceless....long hot showers, some good quality reality television "tune out" time each week, kissing my babies goodnight as they sleep peacefully, and family portraits.

I had a wonderful childhood with many great memories, but the one regret I have, is that I do not really have many photos that capture our whole family together in the same moment in time. Life passes us by far too quickly and before you know it, memories can fade. Since the birth of sweet R, I have been fanatical about getting family portraits done on a regular basis. And I can tell you, each and every time I get those finished photos back, I am brought to tears by their beauty. The emotions, the expressions, the moments, and love captured forever in those in those pictures is the definition of "priceless" in my mind.

Our family has worked with several different photographers over the years, each one an artist. Each one putting a new perspective on our family photos. When little man B was born, I  had the pleasure of meeting Kati of Bean and Sprout Photography Studios. Anyone who has had a baby, knows that in those initial weeks post-partum, it can be tough to feel truly "pretty" in the ready for a photo-shoot sense. And quite frankly, getting a whole family in camera level appearance, can be pretty darn stressful. From the instant Kati stepped into my "I-just-had-a-baby-please-don't-judge-the-mess" home, I knew we were in for a special session. She put us instantly at ease with her kind, friendly  approach and the resulting images were works of art.

In the months following, I got to know Kati on a personal level and she became a true friend. Beyond that, she is truly an inspiration as a mama entrepreneur. Not only is she running a wildly successful photography business, but she is in the process of launching a tech start-up as well. All while being a loving wife and AMAZING mama to her two adorable little men.

I could go on and on....but let's have you all meet Kati for yourselves!

Tell us about your business:

"I own a photography business and have also founded a tech start-up."

What did you do in your past life...before you launched your business?

"I worked for a children's retail company as the inventory manager and systems administrator."

What made you decide to take the leap into being a business owner?

"When the economy tanked my company significantly reduced my hours. I was forced to come up with a way to support our family since my husband was in law school. I have always loved photography and often was told I should start my own business. After a lot of practice and learning, I launched BSP Studios and never looked back. Once I realized how nice it is to work for yourself, ideas began spinning of other businesses to start. I love the process and came up with an idea that I am hoping will have great success. It has been a long exhausting adventure, but I am really enjoying creating a new business and getting it off the ground."

 

What has been your greatest professional success to date?

"I was published on the cover and inside of NW Kids Magazine last spring!"

 

How about the biggest "lesson learned"?

"WOW...SO many lessons. I would say that I am still learning non-stop. Trying to find balance with my family and still be successful is a constant struggle. I also have learned that you can't please everyone, but you just keep doing the best you can."

 

What is next on the horizon for your business?

"The launch of my new business in 2013...hopefully :)!!!! It is a big project and we have a lot of work ahead, but it will be very exciting to see it up and running!"

 

Where can we find you when you are not being Super Business Owner Woman??

"At home with my kiddos or grabbing a bite with friends. I am an extreme extrovert so I really gain energy from being around people. I also like to read, workout, and catch a movie when I can."

When someone asks you to tell a joke, what is your "go-to" one-liner?

"My hubby is the funny one...I would probably tell the latest 4 year old joke, which I can't even remember at the moment :)."

 

If you could go back in time, what would you tell your 18 year-old self?

"Believe in yourself and it will all work out! Life is full of ups and downs, but just try to enjoy the ride."

Inspired? Want to learn more about BSP Studios? Check out their website at www.beanandsproutphotography.com

KidCo Healthy Snack Feeder Kit

If you haven't been there already...you will be. I am talking about the moment when your sweet darling no longer wants you coming any where near her with a spoon. She is over it! She may as well put a sign on the back of her high-chair that reads: "Self Feed Or Bust" beacause chances are, there is no turning back.

Both my kiddos have done it. And pretty much every baby I know had done it as well. They day is coming. And chance are, they will be teething at the same time....Murphy's Law.

The problem comes when your little one is ready to make the leap, but you aren't quite sure that she is ready to take bite sized pieces yet....or your nerves simply can't handle watching them attempt to use a spoon with that yummy blueberry puree over your new wooden floors. Yikes!

Enter KidCo Healthy Snack Feeder Kit!

KidCo's Healthy Snack Feeder Kit (with freezer tray) is perfect to introducing new foods, giving frozen treats, and even great for teething! This BPA-Free feeder provides a safe snacking option that is perfect for introducing new, age appropriate foods to your little love! You simply fill the netted bag with your Yumminess of choice and the  soft material creates a barrier that helps keeps large pieces out of baby's mouth, but allows her the satisfaction of self-feeding!

Happy Baby = Happy Mama

There is even a super handy freezer tray (also BPA free) that allows you to whip up the frozen Yumminess of your choice in the perfect size to slip directly into the netted feeder bag. Kiddos love frozen stuff and your little teethers will be thanking you as well! So much better than a plain frozen teething ring. Breastmilk, formula, bananas, applesauce, some fabulous At First Bite purees....the possibilies are endless!

And the best part....wait for it....the whole thing is dishwasher safe! Woo Hoo!!! You know you love that mamas!

Wanna give the Healthy Snack Feeder Kit a try??

Visit their website at www.kidco.com to learn more and even place an order!

This is definitely one of the things we LOVE!!!

Identity Crisis Anyone?

For years before having my kiddos, my hands were sore....not from manual labor or anything, but from climbing. No, not from climbing the face of rugged mountains using only an ice pick and a piece of twine....although that would be a cool story wouldn't it? Nope, these mitts were sore from grasping the rungs of the proverbial corporate ladder. Rung by rung, I pulled my way up and was not planning on descending anytime soon.

Funny how having an 8-ish pound human being placed in your arms can change your tune.

I had been dead set on the idea that I would be the one mama in the history of the world that would not have the internal struggle of finding balance. It would be a piece of cake. I would come home from my cushy, well-compensated,  desk job and simply enjoy the company of my hubs and cherub of a newborn....and maybe a glass of wine. OK, most likely with a glass of wine....or two....usually only one. Don't judge.

After my oldest, sweet R, was born, I went back to work 32 hours per week. All was good....pretty much never the scene I described above, but good for sure. When news of the pending arrival of Baby B came, I figured all would stay the same. Then I crunched the numbers...the daycare numbers that is. Boo hiss....

For the next 9+ months, several of which I was already on maternity leave with Baby B, I waged a civil war with my pride. I was supposed to be a young, ladder climbing, future executive....but logic said that maybe I should trade in my Blackberry and company credit card for some cute yoga pants and a new set of crayolas....to entertain my 2 year old of course....not to replace the Blackberry....although crayons are WAY more fun most of the time.

In the end, logic beat out pride and here I am....a (mostly) SAHM to two beautiful kiddos. A total 180 from where I thought I was headed 4 years ago. And guess what...I LOVE my yoga pants and crayolas. And I think....I hope....that my littles love that I am here to share the big events of their days as well. You know, when B couldn't be more proud of himself because he completely "reorganized" the Tupperware...again. Or when R is bursting with pride because she managed to pull her princess costume on over her jeans and pink puffy coat and she "didn't even rip it." Those moments beat long drawn-out conference calls and "can-you -create-yet-another-report" any day.

That all being said, I would be completely LYING if I said there weren't days that I feel like maybe being a SAHM just isn't enough (heck, that is why At First Bite was born). There are moments and social situations, where I have to swallow my pride when I say "I stay home with my kids." Maybe it's just the way I am wired. Maybe it is a perceived social stigma. Not sure....probably will never quite figure it out. I am officially a mama on an identity crisis roller coaster. It's a ride I feel guilty for being on sometime....but what can I say. I'm human. And isn't "Mama-Guilt" like a real diagnosis these days anyway? See, I am just trendy....in my yoga pants.

The bottom line, I am so incredibly THANKFUL that I even have the opportunity to have this internal struggle. I am fortunate to have the choice that I have. Please don't mistake my ramblings above for complaining....that is certainly not the intention. My intent is only to put a voice to a struggle I am sure that others share with me....

Being a parent is defined by trying to strike a balance between doing what is best for your children and doing what allows you to keep your sanity just long enough to be the best parent you can possibly be. Pretty sure that balance, is a moving target. Keep aiming my friends.

Privacy...can you remind me what that is again?

A few days back, I posted a picture on my Facebook page that seemed to strike a chord with quite a few of our followers....

Are you ready? Here it is:

Sure, I thought it was cute and funny and kinda true....until earlier today, when I swear to you all, this EXACT scene happened here in my home sweet home. My daughter R, has never been one riddled with sadness when I leave the room....never. I mean, she was the kiddo that when I left her with the nanny at 4 months old for the very first time, I swear she threw me a smile and a peace sign as I slunk out the door in tears.

My little man B, however....not so much. I have been home with the kiddos for the most part since he made his grand entrance, so he has not been trained to much to be away from me. Sadly, now that he can walk, this means that he will literally attach himself to my leg and hold on for dear life when I attempt to leave the room. So, I do what I gotta do when it comes time to, eh hem....use the facilities. I wait until he is staring in awe at something crazy his sister is doing, and I RUN! In fact, I have perfected the run and silent door close move....it really is quite impressive.

Well, today, I must have been off my game, because the door latch made a sound....dang it. I listened as B stood up clumsily...he is still new to standing up OK? Sometimes it take a few tries.... And I heard his tiny flame patterned sneakers make their way closer to the bathroom door.

Being a new mom, I can complete my bathroom duties in record time and generally, the little creatures don't even know I was gone. Not today.....that little hand came creeping under the door (exactly as in the picture above) and I heard a pensive, but very accusatory,  "Mama?". B had found me..and he was less than thrilled. And apparently, my leaving the room for approximately 11.2 seconds meant that I had completely rejected the little dude. The look he gave me when I opened that door....oh man. I mean, I give people that same look in traffic all the time, but not when someone leaves to use the bathroom. Geez little man....why you gotta hate?

So there it is friends....they say that art (that picture qualifies as "art" right?) imitates life...or something like that.  To that I say: Truth....truth.

Recipe: Berry Green Smoothie

Tis the New Year and as such, it is time to give our systems a fresh start! Time to wash out the indulgences from the past few weeks (OK...months...) with some wholesome goodness. Our recipe today, is super easy and will be equally appealing to the littles in your house as it is to us big kids! I mean, really, who doesn't love a smoothie??

While some of us (namely me...) may have an initial aversion to adding green stuff where pink and purple yumminess usually reigns supreme, this one will have those nay-sayers changing their tunes! Adding spinach and other greens into fruit based smoothies not only packs in the added nutrients that are sometimes poo-pooed at the dinner table, but you will most likely find that the littles in your house, think that the more flavors they can add in, the better! We like that!

So, stock that New Years freezer with all sorts of frozen fruits and have plenty of fresh greens in the crisper drawer and turn the kiddos, and yourself, loose to make all sorts of creative combos!

If you need a little inspiration to get you started, here it is....

Berry Green Smoothie

 

Mama Chef Extraordinaire: Catherine at Weelicious.com (AWESOME site!!)

When to Introduce: 12 months (Always ask a pediatrician if you have concerns)

 

Why We Love It: This puppy packs a nutritional punch and is super yummy! Plus, it is dairy and gluten free....added bonus!

 

Ingredients:

2 cups packed spinach

2 cups frozen mixed berries
2 cups coconut water
1 large banana, mashed

Directions:

1. Place all ingredients in a blender and pulse until smooth.  

 

Servings: Makes 2 adult-sized servings! Plenty for the littles!